Relationship
“I Fasted And Pray To God To Remove The Memories I Had With Other Men” …. Lady Reveals As She Got Married
A woman made herself and her spouse the talk of social media after disclosing some personal information about how she met her virgin husband.
The lady claimed that when it became clear that she would marry him, she fasted and begged to God to take away any memories of the men she had dated before to him.
Sharing the photo, she wrote ;
When hubby and I got serious about courtship, I fasted and prayed, and asked God to erase any ties to and memories of the men I had been with before my husband.
I was not coming to our marriage bed with no prior activity. I wasn’t coming to it ashamed or condemned either because I was made clean in Christ.
However I wanted to be able to come to my marriage bed with dignity; and for our experience together to be unique to us.
He was a virgin and I was not, but I didn’t want that to be a hindrance to our sexual relationship.
People forget that “the marriage bed is undefiled” also means both partners have no sexual ties including memories to any other person past AND present.
So I prayed, and consecrated MYSELF. I’m grateful that God erased everything. Not a single recollection.
I wanted to have nothing and nobody to compare him to. Part of the reason marriages get into trouble is when couples aren’t sexually satisfied due to measuring their spouse against previous partners.
Comparison is truly the thief of all joy. Including the joy of coming together as one. No pun intended.
Here’s the deal: SEX IS LEARNED BEHAVIOR. That means you have to learn your spouse and you will never truly do that living the memories of previous partners before your spouse.
If you’re desiring marriage and you were intimate with someone who wasn’t your spouse, pray about the memories and details of that experience(s) to be removed from your heart and spirit.